Hey everyone,
It has definitely been a minute, and I wanted to let you know that I have not forgotten about you guys, and it has been ever present on my mind that this is something that I was called to do. So it’s time I get back to it and stop running from my personal feelings about writing this blog. When I first was granted the idea of writing this blog, this blog was something I was doing as a passion project, not just for me, but for the community. I started this blog and podcast based on the idea that I could help somebody. That has always been the goal! However, sometimes life, ourselves and our minds get in the way of our goals. So to you who have been waiting patiently and who have supported me in the background, quietly, I do apologize for running away. However, this is something I’m learning to be comfortable with. I have always have been very helpful.
However, this entity, requires me to not only be helpful, but quite transparent in some aspects, and that is not always fun. It also requires dedication and sacrifice. That is something that I was not fully aware of. I wasn’t aware that I would have to sacrifice in the beginning, however, I’m just gonna take y’all along with me. I am going to be very transparent, as always, when I write, speak and give advice, I will be transparent. This blog is not going to be for everybody. Some of you will find this useful. Some of you will be like “whatever she could have kept that”. There are plenty of people out there that will find it contradictory to who you think I am. Some of you will find it contradictory to what you’ve learned or what you’ve been taught. That’s okay! You will get out of it what you need or something you did not know you need, but comes in handy later. Sometimes it’s not even for you, but for a friend or a family member. My goal is to help. My goal is to supply applicable, fun, entertaining and knowledgeable ways to get information, help, resources, books and build a community for the 20 somethings and those beyond their 20 somethings, but still need the love and help.
You know, this is for you all. This is also for me. In my own healing, I realized that I was one of many, who learned certain lessons, but still stood out. One of many who didn’t learn certain lessons, but wish they knew. My job is to help you lessen some of those blows, and if I can’t lessen them, at least help you get through them. From what I know, from what some of my interviewees, who are friends, and family. Eventually we’ll get some sponsored people on here like dedicated professionals. To include therapists, money managers, even some religious, and spiritual gurus. We’ll get some of them in here too at some point. But the goal is to give you a resource in which you can always come back and use when you need it. It’ll be here and it’ll always be an open door and an open hug to help you through whatever you’re going through.
So without further ado, I am officially back. I know I said it before, but like the song says from back in the 70s, welcome back, welcome back, welcome back. I am back, and I won’t leave you guys this time. I’ll just have to blog through it. I’m just gonna have to tell y’all what’s going on in the best of my abilities, and tell y’all how I’m making it through it. That won’t always be easy, but hey, maybe sometimes y’all be able to relate. Maybe sometimes y’all might be the haters, but hey, that’s not for me to judge. My job is to be a resource and to help/guide those who need it.
I have some big things planned this year for the other half of the year that we’re rolling into. Please forgive me. I know it’s July, but I have some things that I want to get out to you guys. I have some resources that I really feel like will help some people. I feel like it’ll help everybody in a way, whether you use it, share it, or if you take a little snippet of something. I feel like it’ll help everybody, one way or another, be a better version of themselves, and create a community and a security in who they are during their 20s. Because that’s the goal, is to create a sense of communities for the 20 somethings, so that they don’t feel alone being in their 20s, and also to foster a relationship with those who are no longer in they 20s, but want to help the next generation. There’s nothing wrong with that. It’s our job to help each other. So I’m here, y’all! Let’s get into it.
One of the first things that will be coming out soon is my post about organization, and I’m going to do a mini podcast episode on such. I’m just gonna get it out there, because if I don’t, it’ll never come out, because my perfectionism in me will shut it down at any chaotic moment or point where I feel like, Ah, it’s not good enough. So we’re gonna talk about that later. However, right now, we’re gonna go ahead and get that finished so I can get that out to you guys, hopefully by the end of July. That is the goal, with all the chaos going on, that is, the goal is to get that out before the end of July. I want to see how y’all feel about it, and keep making some resources and tip sheets and fun things to help y’all get started. You know, because life be life’n like, let’s not play life really do be life’n and I feel like in the present social and economic framework and standpoint that we are in life really is life’n right now. The best thing to do is lean on those who love you, support you, and who are there for you, just like you guys have been there for me. Now it’s my time to send that love and build a community in which can be fostered for you guys and everyone else out there that wants to join and be a part of and make this grow.
So again, without further ado, I am CJ, and welcome to From CJ with Love. My goal is to give you love and lessons to help you become a better 20 something and a better adult in the world we live in.
Thanks for reading and as always
~From CJ With Love💚
